Comments on: Question: I Can’t Find a Husband… Should I Just Give Up?

By: Leah 212

Leah 212 — Mon, 09 Jan 2012 17:58:20 +0000

Even Sinners and unsave people find mates, good mates, and they are able to have good marriages. I don’t think its suppose to be that difficult and I think there is plenty of marriage material out there. It rains on the just and the unjust.

By: stacey

stacey — Sun, 08 Jan 2012 06:17:08 +0000

Why does it seem so easy for others? My brother, who doesn’t even socialize very much, happens to go to a party one nite & meets his wife. This was only 3 months after his last relationship broke up. I have family members who have come out of divorces and meet someone in no time at all. I’m 43 & all I ever wanted was to be a wife & mother. I just knew these things were just around the corner when I was younger & so full of hope. Now I’m getting too old to have children. I don’t want to die without knowing the love of a companion. I have dated alot in my twenties and thirties and am told I’m very attractive but have experienced much rejection in my dating relationships. I would meet someone, get my hopes up, and things would be great for awhile only to be left for someone else. I’ve always felt that other women had some magic secret that I lacked. I pray to God everyday to pick someone for me. I have alot to offer but men just don’t see it. I’m tired of all of the worn-out cliches when I try to talk to people about this. I always felt invisible when it comes to men-kind of like they were looking through me, like I didn’t exist. Why didn’t I get picked? I cry about this every day now. I’m ashamed to admit this but I have developed an addiction to help deal with the pain & loneliness. The ache has just gotten to be too much. Where can I find someone when most men my age are married? Why won’t God answer my prayers. I’m tired of crying every day. I’m tired of trying. Why can’t anyone see my value and pick me? I’m sorry I’m rambling about this. I’m just being honest & pouring my heart out right now.

By: admin

admin — Mon, 02 Jan 2012 04:28:35 +0000

Kathyrn,
How can an opinion not be honest unless I write an opinion I know I don’t truly believe? People write to me for my best answer or advice… when I can give a Biblical black and white answer I do. Otherwise I give my best opinion based on principle and experience.

By: kathryn

kathryn — Tue, 06 Dec 2011 18:24:00 +0000

I was noticing the ” my answer” part , that is just an opinion and not reasons why the asker is still single. One doesn’t know why she’s still single ! I’m still single myself and don’t know why either but so amazed at how much people don’t know by what they claim they do
Brent instead of writing 8 unecessary paragraphs highlighted by ur opinions , not fact , and be honest , ” I don’t know ” is honest , ur opinions aren’t

By: PEACE

PEACE — Thu, 18 Aug 2011 03:12:45 +0000

I have completely given up on God sending me a husband. I have prayed for 20 years for a husband. I cant go thru this another 20 years of my life. . I have been so depressed to the point I wanted God to take me home with him. I am to the point in my life that I really dont care about it anymore. I wont to have peace more than having a mate.

By: Bryan

Bryan — Mon, 25 Jul 2011 02:22:22 +0000

All these comments sound like my train of thought. I am only a senior in HighSchool (I know it’s too young for these things) but recently I have been thinking too much on what my future wife would be like. I like to think that she will be a virtuous women from Eastern Europe and will have really good looks like those blonde magazine models. Of course I would be ideal and great too. Then I focus only on my imaginary wife and God becomes second. One thing is that I would like to get married at 30 and raise up fine children but God probably laughs at my plans. It’s only a fantasy and I realise how ridiculous I sound now so I’ll just try to focus on The Lord first.

By: kimberly

kimberly — Mon, 11 Jul 2011 14:00:06 +0000

I am wanting to get married too..i have seen many of my friends get married and have children. i am thirty now and wonder will i ever find someone that loves me just like i love them? people tell me i am beautiful and should have no trouble finding someone but i haven’t found anyone i truly love. sometimes i have felt that God wants me to remain single so i have felt bitter thinking my singleness will last forever…lies from the evil one rest assured! i know that from nights of being bitter upset and frustrated it is better to trust in God for my future than to not trust in God and i pray that God makes my husband into the man for me and likewise me for him! so i will go one trusting in God and try to be thankful for what he has given me..which are many blessings! i don’t even know when my last day on Earth will be so i will try to trust him day by day. I love you Jesus!!!

By: Raynella

Raynella — Sun, 30 Jan 2011 08:22:30 +0000

Correction:
If you know that being single is not something you can handle, then you have to take action to procure a mate.

By: Kim

Kim — Tue, 28 Dec 2010 03:06:21 +0000

All my life, all I’ve ever wanted to be was a wife and a mother. Now at 49 years old, I do feel that I may as well quit asking for that. Even if I did get a husband, at this point in my life, I don’t want “bear” a child or even the responsiblity (, day care expense, soccer, pta, after-school, etc) that comes with. But since I’m officially in menopause since June 10, that’s prety much a done deal. I keep telling myself that surely God did not put me on this earth to take my mom when I was 6 years old, my father when I was 9 years old, my brother out there on drugs, and just leave me out here alone?? But that’s just how I feel, i’m brought to tears when I see moms and their children, couples, I truly am heartbroken, and don’t understand why, it’s such a simple request and certainly one that is in keeping with Gods’ wishes/wills.

By: blessing obibi

blessing obibi — Mon, 09 Aug 2010 19:30:31 +0000

I went through your mail & I would like you to know that I am looking for a Godly woman like you for a true family oriented relationship that is based on Godliness,respect for one another,sincerity,faithfulness, &loving you for whom you are.
I am a born again christian since 1982 & has God first in my life daily in all my doings, so, pls, if you are interested in my request, I would be happy to read from you.
I am living & working in Senegal though am not from here.
Pls, do note that this message is nothing but a serious one & has nothing to do with game playing nor any evil minded reasons.
Thanks.
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